Many people in New York are born and raised here, and with that comes a deep sense of belonging to the city. As a newcomer, it's important to understand that you can't just be a part of something that others have built over a lifetime. Sometimes, as a new person in a new space, you're not always received with open arms. You may even be perceived as threatening, but that's okay—everyone has their own goals and paths. It’s crucial to acknowledge this dynamic without taking it personally.
Don't make forming friendships your sole objective. Instead, focus on understanding all the relationships you're a part of and strive for balance—relationships should always be a give-and-take.
As an artist, it’s essential to build relationships only after you’ve clearly defined your own work. This allows you to communicate what you do with clarity and purpose. Once you have a solid understanding of your art, you’ll be able to form meaningful connections with others in the field.
Don’t forget to stretch your relationships beyond your immediate artistic circle. Engage with your community, local politicians, and small businesses. These are valuable relationships too. Communicating with a broad spectrum of people will help you attract what you’re in New York City for.
And remember, always appreciate the people and experiences that are reciprocating your energy. It’s all about the balance of give and take.
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